Long-stemmed white roses, at first blush...
Nearly a week later, frayed around the edges.
Every flower has it charm. So why are certain Western societies enthralled only by virtually flawless specimens?
When did "plastic fantastic" - erasing most signs of character and a well-lived life - become mainstream? Why is fake often considered preferable to real, with imperfections?
And why, oh why must any budding beauty be put through such a spectacle of horrors??!! Read more here and here.
This is so wrong. I have been saying recently that there is a dumbing of America. So very, very sad.
Posted by: Marilyn | 19 September 2011 at 00:08
Oh and now that I've clicked through to read the articles, I have more to add. This type of sexualization in children is disturbing on so many levels.
These parents should be ashamed of themselves! The children are being objectified and will surely grow up to have a distorted sense of self based solely on image. It's teaching them to be valued for all the wrong things. It's abusive. And there ought to be laws put in place to protect children from such a fate.
Posted by: C'est moi! | 18 September 2011 at 06:34
I could not agree more! Everyday I see women wanting to erase the sands of time from their face. Through the course of an hour I hear their stories, laughter, and histories and I think, why would you want to look 29 again? At 29 we know nothing of what we know at 49, 59....
Aging gracefully as yourself should be key. Not trying to look like "the rose at first blush."
Posted by: C'est moi! | 18 September 2011 at 06:18
You have hit a nerve with this post, Tara. I have been very vocal in my opposition to these types of "beauty pageants." Should I start with the skewed body image they reinforce and the fact that it is okay to use sex as a way to win approval and accolades? Or shall I just tell you that I think these shows are basically "chumming" for pedophiles? I am not sure if I feel sorrier for the children who will have to learn at some point this is wrong or the parents who think these type of events are okay for children to participate in. Mon dieu, is it any wonder we are in the state we are in when such importance is placed on this type of activity? I have trouble understanding what type of parent feels it is a good idea to give a five year old child a sprayed on tan, acrylic nails, hair extensions, false teeth, and who knows what else!
Posted by: Mary H. | 16 September 2011 at 22:53