I've been thinking about St. Valentine's Day; how commercialized it's become and how it may seem fraught for individuals who aren't part of a couple or in a committed relationship. Yet I defy you to show me one person who isn't in a relationship involving care and concern for each other. And that's the sentiment that infuses Valentine's Day - love! It doesn't have to be romantic love to count, contrary to what the marketing mavens would have us believe. Roses and chocolates don't have to play a part.
Birds of paradise, Kathmandu, Nepal.
For Valentine's Day, I've taken spring bulbs and flowers to my neighbours who shoveled the snow while my husband was in hospital and to friends who have been incredibly kind and helpful since we moved here.
David and I will spend Valentine's Day at the hospital, where he is having more surgery. We are looking forward to celebrating his improved health soon. After all, that's what really matters: looking after each other. In all our personal relationships, showing love, care and respect for each other on a regular basis means more than hearts and flowers on just one over-promoted holiday per year.
At the florist this morning, a heart-shaped stone had been covered in tiny red rosebuds echoing the heart shape - thus softening the "heart of stone." I asked the florist if Valentine's Day is a big celebration here. "A little bit, but it's not like in the States," she replied. "The Dutch are more cool; more reserved in their emotions."
Whatever your nationality or tendency to wear your heart on your sleeve - even If you aren't feeling the love - these photos may bring a smile to your face.
Laughing Buddha at a monastery in the Himalayas, Nepal.
An effervescent smile, Swayamhunath Temple, Kathmandu.
Young married woman, Bungamati, Nepal.
Happy couple, Bungamati.
However you're spending your day, take time to notice and appreciate the thoughtfulness and consideration of those close to you....and share the love!
Happy Valentine's Day!
All photographs © Tara Bradford.
I love the excuse to make Valentine's, and sometimes I make them even when it's not Feb 14! The other benefit is that it's my little Scout dog's birthday. But the important thing is that I do so hope that David is feeling good and getting better.
Posted by: Chris | 22 February 2013 at 23:29
Hoping all goes well for you and David, and that there are brighter days ahead.
Posted by: cate | 18 February 2013 at 14:16
Thinking about you and David oh so much... xoxoxo
Posted by: Vanessa {a fanciful twist} | 17 February 2013 at 20:09
All you need is love. Well, maybe not ALL, but pretty darned close. What makes me smile is that I know that while David is experiencing that post surgical yuck that is part of the territory, that he has without question a partner in love, health and healing who will be there, who will take care and support and listen and just love. I've got one of those (I knew that, but I really just found out how to the mat he's there) and it gives me great peace of mind knowing David does, too. Sending love and light.
Posted by: jeanie | 16 February 2013 at 15:05
Thanks for the best Valentine's post I've read!
How exquisite that little girl outside the temple is.
I wish your husband a speedy recovery, good health and happiness to both of you.
Posted by: Karen@PasGrand-Chose | 15 February 2013 at 15:30
I wish a speedy recovery for your husband.
Every day is a good day for love. Rumi.
The best things in life are not things.
Love and hugs and Happy Valentine's Day
Much love and many blessings
Love Jeanne
Posted by: Jeanne | 14 February 2013 at 19:19
Big hugs to both you and David. Let me know how it goes. xx
Posted by: Di Overton | 14 February 2013 at 09:56
Thinking of you and your husband tomorrow. Hope all goes well!
Posted by: Sheris White | 14 February 2013 at 00:39
Beautiful, as always, and best of luck to David. I'll be thinking of you both.
Posted by: Natalie | 13 February 2013 at 20:28
The smiles on the faces here definitely warm the heart. Thanks for your gift. I agree with your Valentine sentiments entirely. There is so much more to hearts and love than romantic love. Blessings on you and David as you walk together in his time of healing.
Posted by: Marilyn | 13 February 2013 at 18:03
Have not been keeping up with my blogs as much as usual lately...didn't know your husband had surgery. Hope all will be well soon!
I am in one of those towns in CT, USA, that received three feet of snow. Between Hurricane Sandy, the Newtown murders, and other such happenings in our area, I think holidays have declining importance at the moment.
It truly is about sharing the holiday with friends and loved ones...the commercial part diminishes with age and circumstances. Wishing you a happy V-Day!
Posted by: Helen | 13 February 2013 at 17:52
What a positive outlook on another commercialized holiday in the states. Tara, please take a little extra "me" time while David is recuperating. It doesn't matter whether you are a patient or family, time in a hospital can be taxing for all. Sending many get well soon wishes across the pond.
Posted by: Mary H. | 13 February 2013 at 16:15